2010/05/30

Being Misunderstood

Beginning with a childhood, we may have an experience of being misunderstood by others, no matter by the parents, friends, teachers, colleagues or the managers. All of us know that misunderstanding is a very bad experience. But we can’t avoid it in our every stage of life. As a result, how should we deal with the thorny problem? Here are some tips for you. Take me for example, once my sister yelled at me loudly “Return the mirror to me right now.” I said that I did not take it from her. But she was so angry that she did not pay attention to what I have said. I really had no idea why her mirror was gone. Finally, she said “You had better find it out before I came back home.” After she left home, I felt confused. It was not my business. However, first, we should calm down instead of debating with one another. Then, we can place ourselves to other’s poison, considering the solution to this problem. Finally, when he or she is in a good mood, we are able to seize the exact time to explain to he or her. Once I passed through my brother’s room, seeing the mirror was on his desk. Although I was a little angry at that time, the mirror was found eventually. The whole thing could be ended. So when we encounter to be misunderstood, we can’t impulse at present so that we can prove something for ourselves later. The more communication with each other, the better the situation is.
Catherine(262 words)

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