The Hardship of Unemployed Person

Being unemployed can cause people to lose their self-respect. Nowadays, unemployed people may trigger off many difficult problems in their life, especially the human’s psychology. Sometimes, they would feel depressed and diffidence after they fail to find their job. Some people think positively, but others not. Maybe, they just don’t know how to deal with this situation properly. We don’t know what hardship for the unemployed people have to sustain. They are placed in a blurred position between work and family.
The first hardship is that they can’t face to their family. If the unemployed person is the main economy to the family, they would not know how to tell his family about the truth, because they may be the family’s supporter. They feel embarrassed and irresponsible to their family. However, it makes them stay in a dilemma, and wear down their dignity day by day, year by year. They live in unsure life as if their future is no direction. Therefore, they lose their confidence and self-respect.
The second hardship is that they have no social position in the society because they are jobless, and they live in a realistic world. In addition, it also has the class between higher-up and subordinates in the career. Everyone should compete with each other, and comparing themselves with others for their live as no one wants to be a loser. Therefore, they may level down their position to fawn on their higher-up. Undoubtedly, under comparison, jobless person become inferior and they lose their dignity.
Being an unemployed person has no social position. They are despised by others even by their family. It would make them have a sense of inferiority. The main reason is that they can’t find their achievement in their work. Besides, they lock their mind gradually. Then they begin to avoiding the society. Little by little, they become confused, and refuse to communicate with outside world. They are un-social and they are not easy to get along with other people because they are self-abasement.
My father loses his job as Mo La Ke typhoon in this year. He seems very sad and upset. However, I wouldn’t like to give more pressure to him, I try to save money and work part time job frequently. Even though I would like to go having a nice weekend, but I couldn’t spend much money for entertainments. I hope that my dad can brace his heart up and he has to do it. God helps those who help themselves that I think.

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