2013/12/20

Problem-solving not problem-asking

     It is hard for me to maintain a relationship. We cannot avoid us  from having some argument with people we love. Recently I was taught a lesson that I am still not mature enough. I am like a little baby who need someone to accompany by my side. I think that is all because I am a Capricornus who will stick with his or her lover forever. Though we have been together more than one year ,we still want to see each other everyday. Unfortunately, we cannot expect things as our wish. However, the most important things that couples need to learn is communication. For example, we have to figure it out when we can see each other and we also learn to arrange our schedule. Due to my unstable arrange shifts, we have been so long not seeing each other. In view of this reason, we become a sort of unhappy and sorrowful in this relationship.
    My boyfriend points out where our problem is. Every time the problem rises before my eyes all I do is to keep asking question . What am I supposed to do? I tend to ask questions instead of figuring it out something.But this time I take my first step to solve the problems.''The only one who can fix the problem is the one who created the problem.'' I decide to see him when he is working . Before long ,everything is fine and we also fix our relationship like before. When he see me, he takes me to the salon right away. And he talks to me ,'' You are the birthday star of this month  and I owe you one process of hair care.'' After that, I find out I think too much these days. He is the one who always care about me. I should show more my consideration for him.






(1427/2000) Ava Ju

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  1. i think man are simple creature, we might think something so deeply, as opposite they think it so simple. So forexample when we go to shopping and buy a new t-shirt, we will explain to oir friends ohww i bought new t-shirt or pair of shoes whatever this color this shape.. but the man will just share his idea "i bought a t-shirt" i mean as nature we are two opposite creatures, our ideas our emotions are totally different, so should nto be expected them to understand us very clearly. So act simple dont ask alot of questions such as " where were you" what were you doing " they are kind annoying questions

    Mel

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