In
this times now, many families are dual-earner couples. Both father and mother
are working outside. They do not have enough time to be with their children.
Just like the boy in the article, he just hopes that his father can take more
time to play with him or stay with him. Because of this reason, it may effects
different problems in the family. There are three problems which are separates
a generation of education, the family is easily to get fight, and the kids are
easily to feel lonely.
First, many parents would choose to send their children to their
grandparents if they do not have enough time to take care their kids. Maybe the
grandparents would come to the children's house or maybe the children would go
to the hose of grandparents and come home at weekend. It still has something
good, because at least the kids will not be alone when they got home, and they
do not need to worry about their daily lives. Grandparents will give them what
they need: meal and caring. However, there also are some drawbacks and problems
in the separates a generation of education. Most grandparents are easily spoiled
their grandchildren. They give the children what they request as possible as
they can. Grandparents are also not cruel enough to blame and punish the kids
when they did something wrong. Some grandparents think that it is the best way
to love their grandchildren. They see those kids like treasure, so they just
let alone. It is easy to let the kids become bad and impolite.
Second,
dual-earner couples are easily to have some fights in their families between
parents and children. Parents do not always stay at home, so they are easily to
ignore their children's feelings and opinions. Not only the relationship may
become worse, but parents and kids may also become more remote. Therefore, the
children will unwilling to share their feelings to their parents, although they
are sad or they meet something bad. Over a long period of time, although the
parents have some times and want to get close to their children, the kids may not
want to stay t home anymore.
The
last, the children who live in the dual-earner couples are easily to feel
lonely. Parents always come home late because they have their work. Children
come home after the school but they usually cannot have a dinner with their
parents. Frequently, they get home and open the door with dark. There is no one
in the house. Because of this, the children usually feel lonely in their heart.
At the beginning, they may hope that they can see their parents in the house
when they open the door, and a lot of delicious food on the table which is prepared
by the mother, but it is not happen. They just can eat outside food day by day
alone. After long, they may not have any hopes. They know that their parents
are too busy to have time to be with them. Children become lonelier and unhealthier.
Whether
the parents be with their children is really important. When kids see their
parents, they may feel the love from their parents. They will know that they
are not alone. These dual-earner couples’ children may not just want to buy
some toys to play, but they may more hope that their parents can spend some times
to stay with them. Like the boy in the story, he wants the money not because he
wants to buy some toys. He just wants to pay the money to his father to let his
father spend a day to be with him. It shows that the father forgets that his
little boy really needs his love and cares. Spending some times with your family
is really important. It is not only can get close with your family members, but
also can have some times to understand what your kids or parents are thinking. (663 words)
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